Donuts with grownups is a warm, inclusive school event that’s designed to bring students and their parents or guardians together in a relaxed, joyful setting. Unlike older traditions such as “Donuts with Dad” or “Muffins with Mom” this updated version welcomes any caring adult in a child’s life. As one former Grasse elementary school student explained, “It is super important they switched it to ‘Donuts with Grownups’ that way everyone can be included and not feel left out.” The goal is simple: connection, inclusion, and community.
During the event, families enjoy donuts, fruit, and juice while participating in simple activities like coloring, crafts, or photo booths. These activities help create a relaxed environment where students can proudly introduce their grown-ups to their school community. Fourth grader, JJ Mills, shared that his favorite part was “the fruit, the donuts, and having my dad at school.” He also “loved the coloring pages and how many of my friends came this year,” showing how these small touches make the event exciting for kids.
Parents also appreciate the opportunity to connect with their children in a school setting. JJ’s father, Jason Mills, who has attended this tradition for years, said he came because he has “participated every year with his daughters” and wanted to continue the tradition with his son. His favorite moment was “seeing him interact with his friends and teachers,” and he described the school environment that morning as having “a lot of positive energy.” Events like this help families feel welcomed and involved.
Teachers and staff see Donuts with Grownups as a powerful way to build community. One teacher explained that students love showing their grownups, “their artwork, their school, and their friends,” and that the event “ brings the families in and builds community around them.” Even though planning the event requires careful budgeting and estimating the right amount of food, the staff agrees that the excitement and smiles make it worthwhile. As teachers often notice, students leave the event “sugar happy” and thrilled to start their days.
Overall, Donuts with Grownups is more than a breakfast; it is an event that strengthens relationships, celebrates all family types, and builds lasting memories. Many students remember it fondly as they grow up One former student, Addy Mills, shared, “Even as a senior in high school, I still think back on how much those events meant to me as a little kid.” By promoting inclusivity and connection, this tradition continues to bring the Grasse elementary community together in a meaningful and heartwarming way.
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